Never envy the happiness of others
I have heard a sentence:
"the reason why people are unhappy is not because they get too little, but because they want too much, the hearts of the people are hard to settle, and their desires are hard to fill."
I think so.
in the world, each has its own advantages. Although you are not the happiest person, you are by no means the most unfortunate person.
We always envy other people's lives, but we don't know that everyone has their own happiness.
just as you envy my car, I envy your house; you envy my work, I envy your freedom.
people always envy each other. In the final analysis, they all stem from discontentment.
never need to envy others, other people's suffering, you have not experienced, other people's life, you may not be suitable.
envy others is an illusion
Bian Zhilin said, "you stand on the bridge looking at the scenery, and the people watching the scenery are upstairs looking at you."
Adult life is a mixture of joys and sorrows, and most of the time, your troubles are precisely the happiness of others.
We always envy other people's carefree food and clothing, but we don't know what happens behind other people's seemingly effortless lives.
so don't envy others. When you stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, how do you know that you are not the scenery in the eyes of others.
remember watching a movie:
the film is about a middle-aged couple who have three children after marriage, the hostess takes care of the family every day, the marriage is dull, and the life is a place of chicken feathers.
after the hostess managed to put her three children to bed at night, she felt exhausted.
so she and her husband sat on the balcony and enjoyed the only world between them, only to see through the balcony glass that the couple opposite were having a warm chat and eating.
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she began to envy the life of her new neighbor, young and always passionate, not as haggard and free as she was.
Life goes on. In ordinary days, her husband is responsible for supporting the family, and she is responsible for taking care of the children. Whether it is breastfeeding the children in the middle of the night or doing housework during the day, she is always used to looking at the opposite window.
one day, the hostess found that the man from the neighbor's house opposite was carried out, covered with a piece of white cloth.
she hurried downstairs and saw the woman standing by the car in tears. She hesitated for a moment, then came forward and said, "are you all right?"
the woman said, "my husband is very ill. The only thing he can do is to let him have no regrets." I envy that you have three children and that you have a husband who is willing to grow up with your children no matter how late. "
the hostess was at a loss as to what to do. It turned out that her own troubles had become happiness that others could not get.
cartoonist Jimmy said:
"A person always looks up and envies the happiness of others, only to find that he is being looked up and envied."
there are all kinds of life, each has its own joys and sorrows. No one's life is happiness, and no one's life is trouble.
the reason why you feel unhappy is that you stand in your own troubles and look up to the happiness of others.
rather than envy other people's lives and only add to their own troubles, it is better to recognize their hearts and live their own lives.
Love life is an ability
once read such a sentence:
"although life is full of chicken feathers, we still have to sing happily. Although there are roses and thorns on the road to growth, nothing can stop a strong heart. "
it is true.
No matter how difficult life is, as long as you don't give up and face it bravely, you will eventually recover.
the best state of a person is to have a sea in his heart, light in his eyes, not envy others, do not laugh at others, love life, and work hard for it.
A hundred years ago, an old man made a living by herding for others.
one day, he and his two sons were herding sheep on the hillside. A flock of geese flew overhead and disappeared to one side of the sky.
the youngest son asked, "Father, why do wild geese fly south?"
the father replied, "they will fly to a warm place for the winter and come back when the weather is warm."
the eldest son said excitedly, "I really envy them. I wish I could fly, or be a flying goose."
my father was silent for a moment and said, "nothing is impossible. As long as you want to do it, you can fly."
the two sons have been working silently for this purpose since they grew up, bearing in mind their father's words, failing again and again, and testing flights again and again.
that year, my brother was 36 and my brother was 32. They finally realized their dream and invented the airplane. They were the Wright brothers.
Don't envy others, don't complain about life, keep your feet on the ground, work hard silently, do what needs to be done, and leave the rest to time.
as Roman Roland once said:
"there is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, after recognizing the truth of life, you still love life."
Life won't be plain sailing, it won't go the way you want it to be, no matter what difficulties you encounter, there are still people who can try to make life hot.
Learning to love life and enjoy it is not only an ability, but also a courage not to compromise with fate.
contentment is a kind of happiness
there is a saying in the thought of Poverty: "if you are satisfied, although you are poor, you can also be called rich; if you have wealth and have many desires, you will be called poor."
A contented person, thoughPeople who are materially poor but spiritually rich, those who have a lot of money but do not know how to be contented, this is real poverty.
to be a man, one must know how to be contented, contentment will always be happy, and having inner abundance is a person's true happiness.
remember reading a story:
an angel fell asleep while delivering messages on earth. When he woke up, he found that his wings were missing and there was no way to go back to heaven.
cold and hungry, he was taken home by a kind farmer and gave him clothes and food.
the angel talked about his experience, and the farmer said:
"even if you don't have a gift, I won't make you hungry. If you can't do anything else, you can farm with me."
so he and the farmer weeded, watered and fertilized the crops. Day after day, suddenly one day, the angel's wings grew again and flew away in front of the farmer.
A few days later, the angel came to repay the farmer and asked him what he wanted. The farmer said, "I hope I can add a hundred mu of land."
after more fields, the farmer became more and more tired, so he said to the angel, "Please take the land back and want a big house."
when the farmer had a house, he found it was too big to clean the dust. Finally, the farmer returned the big house to the angel and returned to his original residence.
the angel said puzzled, "Don't people have a lot of wishes, don't you?"
the farmer replied, "after the wish came true, I found that I was not happy, but that it became a burden."
the angel continued: "then I give you a priceless treasure, that is mentality." The farmer said, "I already have this state of mind, and that is contentment."
everyone has his own way of living in the world, and there is no need to envy others.
No matter how beautiful other people's shoes are, they may not be suitable for their own feet; no matter how exquisite other people's lives are, they may not be comfortable on their own.
Happiness is like a bowl of boiled water. You drink it every day. You don't have to envy other people's colorful drinks. In fact, you may not have your plain boiled water to quench your thirst.
the greatest happiness is to know how to be contented, to be grateful, to go your own way and live your own life.
bitterness and happiness come from your own heart. Contentment is true affluence.
Don't stand looking for happiness in happiness, stand on one mountain and look at the other, and end up with nothing.
Don't envy others, don't complain about life, know how to be contented, learn to be grateful, everything is the best arrangement.
, may you and I adjust our attitude, cherish what we have, live in the present, and never forget our original ideals and aspirations for the rest of my life.
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